What is the meaning of love?
Some say that love can not be described. Some say that love is the heaven on earth. Some say that love is only about giving and never take for granted. What ever people say about love, the only thing that I know is LOVE must be something wonderful.
Actually, I’m not an expert to tell you about love, because I only learn love from my parents. A kind of love that I feel when I’m with my mom and dad. When you ask me about the feeling of love towards the opposite sex of mine, I can honestly say that I have NOT felt it yet.
So, there are some kinds of love, aren’t they?
I will tell you some story about – I will say it ‘love’ – but I don’t know if you will get another perspective about this ‘my love story’. Or maybe you can help me to divide which one is the true love story and which one is not.
OK. Let’s see what I’ve got. But- FYI, this is not my own experience, I just write about what I saw recently and I put some opinion about it.
A few days ago, I saw a couple, a boy and a girl, they are still kid, maybe around 7-8 years old. They were playing together; I heard the girl said to the boy to go home, but the boy kept insist to accompany her. I don’t know, but I kept smiling by myself when I heard that conversation. I felt that the boy likes her so much. That was so cute, wasn’t it? The boy wanted to stay beside the girl all the time, like he doesn’t want to be separated with her. Is that love? Can a little kid like them understand the meaning of love?
A week ago, I also saw a couple. This couple is already old. I saw them in the train on my way back to Jogja, they were sat in front of me. I’m always happy to see an old couple like that, I feel that their love is very sincere, they keep stay close to each other for a long time, and I can see that they can stay like that for the next couple time until the death split them apart. Is that a real love? I often heard people say, that a couple who live together for a very long time still can feel a love, but their priority is not ‘love’ anymore. They live together because of their need. They need each other to continue their life and take care of the children. So, I think this age of love is a mature love. A condition where their love can not be given not only for their selves but they have to share their love to their children too.
Next, is a love story that happen to a couple who have already adult. They are not too old but they are not a kid anymore, so I can say that they are ‘adult’. I got this story from a Korean drama that I’ve finished watching it yesterday. This drama is called 49 Days which last for 20 episodes. This drama is about a girl who is coma because of the accident. Her spirit still wandering around and she must collect 3 pure tears that she can get from people who love her sincerely to be able to stay alive again.
But here, I don’t want to talk about this girl, I want to talk about another girl in this story who can not live happily for a very long time because her boyfriend’s dead. She and her boyfriend have known each other since they were kid and her boyfriend became her guardian when they were adult because they are orphans. Ever since, the man takes care of the woman so much. They can not be separated until her boyfriend dead in the age of 23. In the end of the story, she has a chance to meet her boyfriend who passed away 5 years ago. Her boyfriend can meet her because he still has something to say to her.
In that scene, I see a true love, I sincere love that I can feel even tough I have not experienced it before. There are some lines that I like the most in this scene. When the man is about to leave, the woman says: “I feel sorry for always receiving from you and never paying you back.” And the man answers: “Pay it back to the person who loves you. Instead of me, give it to that person.” Isn’t that a touching line? I was crying so badly when I watched that touching scene. In my opinion, that is a type of love that only gives and never takes for granted. Like a love that a mother gives to her children.
So, there are so many love story, aren’t they? For you who are curious about the drama that I watched recently, here’s the poster of that drama. If you are a drama lover, I recommend this for you. So, you have to watch it if you have a time. (:
![Image](https://tutrianasekarrosa.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/49d-12.jpg?w=487)
Okay, this is my love story which is actually not my own love story. What about yours?